Where Art, Life and Leadership Collide
- What's Changed?
For those of us living in Boston complexity came wrapped in baseball hats and knapsacks the other week.
In real time, questions came flying out of the tragedy and mayhem. Everything happened too fast. Who were/are these people? How did they come to do these things? Is that really the same friendly kid who hobnobbed with all the other everyday teenagers at Rindge and Latin High School? Is there a foreign connection? How did they fall between the cracks? Weren't there tell tale signs? Did the FBI ask the right questions, dig for the right information when they checked out Tamerlan Tsarvaev? What are the conditions that contributed to this event? We are beginning to get preliminary information but do they add up to answers? To the full story?
In the Boston Globe on April 24th there is a letter to the editor in which the writer writes: Students from Rindge and Latin High School (from which the brothers graduated) "are unable to accept the simplistic notion that Tsarvaev (the younger) as the symbol of evil. They have struggled with the complexities of who this person was; 'He wasn't one of them; he was one of us'; 'He's only 19; he must be so scared'; 'what does this mean for Rindge?' As we all struggle to come to terms with losses of life and innocence in the carnage of the past week, Rindge kids remind us that even this alleged perpetrator's journey is part of the tragedy."
No simple answers.
We live in a VUCA world. Volatile. Uncertain. Complex. Ambiguous.
The VUCA acronym came out of the US Army War College in the late 1990's to describe the new conditions that world military leaders had to face--the rise of terrorism, global political instability, asymmetrical warfare. This acronym perfectly applies to the world at large and one which we all live in, not just the military. Unpredictability and disruptive change is happening in virtually every aspect of our lives. The Boston Marathon tragedy is a microcosm of the broader world. We have become the world and the world is us. You may live in some small town in Kansas but you are touched by forces in far flung areas of the globe. VUCA has come knocking on our doorstep.
I heard a heart wrenching question asked by a six year old child: "Are we going to be okay?" How do you answer truthfully? Well, it's complicated.
So what do we do about it?
First, we must give our emotions their due. Anger, rage, fear. But we must not act on our emotions.
Second, we should not adopt dinosaur mind:
Cartoon by Larry Gonick, February 8, 2012 |
Third, we must claim agency over our lives. Volatile does not mean unprincipled. Uncertain does not mean ignorance. Complex does not mean helpless. Ambiguous does not mean paralysis. We are by nature learners. We may be changed but we have the opportunity to become wiser and to actively live our wisdom.
Fourth, let us give gratitude where we have things to be grateful for and to offer love every day to those we love.